Spicing Up Your Sex Life with Toys and Kinks
If you’re looking for ways to add excitement and spice up your sex life, look no further than your own bedroom. If you’ve been reading my blog you might already have a dedicated sex room. With a little imagination and some effort, you can turn this space into a veritable pleasure palace. In this blog post, we’ll explore some of the ways you can take your sex life to the next level with toys, kinks, and foreplay goodies. Keep reading to learn more!
Toys & Kinks
One of the easiest ways to add excitement to your sex life is by introducing new toys and games. If you and your partner are both open-minded, there’s no limit to the fun you can have! Trying new things in the bedroom can help keep things fresh and exciting, so don’t be afraid to experiment. Not sure where to start? Here are a few ideas:
- Purchase some new toys. This could be anything from a simple vibrator to an entire repertoire of kinky gear. The important thing is that you find something that both you and your partner enjoy. If you’re not sure what kind of toys to buy, doing some research online or set up a mini session with me to help point you in the right direction.
- Get creative with restraints. Restraints are a great way to add excitement and anticipation to sex. If you’re interested in exploring this option, there are many different types of restraints available for purchase online or at your local adult store. Handcuffs, tethers, blindfolds, and body harnesses are just a few of the possibilities. Again, it’s important to find something that both you and your partner are comfortable with before trying it out.
- Play some sexy games. Games can be a fun way to add excitement and anticipation while also helping you get out of your comfort zone. There are many different types of adult games available for purchase online or at local adult stores. Whether you prefer truth or dare-style games, cards games with a erotic twist, or something else entirely, there’s sure to be something out there that tickles your fancy!
External Stimulation
In addition to toys and kinks, another great way to add excitement and spice up your sex life is by focusing on external stimulation. This means paying attention to all of the places on your body that aren’t traditionally associated with sex. Here are a few ideas:
- Give yourself a sensual massage using massage oils or massage candles. These can help get you in the mood while also relaxing any muscles that may be tense from work or everyday stressors.
- Use feathers or other light touch items (such as a silk scarf) to stimulate different parts of your body that respond well to light touch. This could include running the feather along your chest or down your legs. Experiment and see what feels good!
- Try using ice cubes or other temperature play items (such as heated massage stones) during sex or foreplay. This can add an element of surprise and excitement while also helping you experiment with different sensations. As always, make sure both you and your partner are comfortable with anything new before trying it out!
What's your kink?
Grab your FREE sexual interest checklist at the link in my bio to see what you’re really into! Share it with your partner and compare notes to see what new things you both may be ready to try in the bedroom!
Internal Stimulation
In addition to external stimulation, don’t forget about internal stimulation! This is often overlooked but it can be just as important (if not more so) when it comes to enjoying a fulfilling sexual experience. Here are a few ideas:
- Use lube! Lube can help make sex more pleasurable by reducing friction. It can also be used during masturbation for extra fun! There are many different types of lube available for purchase online or at local adult stores, so experiment until you find one that works best for you.
- Incorporate kegel exercises into your daily routine. These exercises help strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to more intense orgasms during sex. For added fun, try using kegel balls during masturbation or sex!
- Explore different types of vibrators (or other insertable toys) until you find one that hits all the right spots for you. This could include G-spot vibrators, anal beads/plugs, or clitoral stimulators—the sky’s the limit! Once again, experimentation is key when it comes to finding what works best for you (and your partner).
There are many different ways that you can add excitement and spice up your sex life—it all comes down to experimenting until you find what works best for you (and your partner). With a little effort (and maybe some new toys), you’ll be well on your way to enjoying mind blowing orgasms in no time! Thanks for reading!
*This post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a small commission, at no cost to you, if you make a purchase through a link!
You’ve managed to combine expertise with a casual approach, making it a pleasure to read.